surface: add virtual destructor to surfacerole to avoid undefined behaviour (#6620)

* surfacerole: add virtual destructor

all classes that will be derived from should have a virtual destructor
otherwise deleting an instance via pointer to a base class is undefined
behaviour, layershell/xdgshell hits this with std::default_delete in the
new sharedptr implentation.

* includes: fix missing includes

fix missing includes for no precompiled headers builds, and remove a
redefiniton of a macro already defined in macros.hpp

src/managers/CursorManager.hpp

@@ -5,6 +5,7 @@
 #include <memory>
 #include "../includes.hpp"
 #include "../helpers/math/Math.hpp"
+#include "../helpers/memory/Memory.hpp"
 
 struct wlr_buffer;
 struct wlr_xcursor_manager;