internal: new shared_ptr and weak_ptr implementation (#5883)

moves std::shared_ptrs to a new implementation

Advantages:
- you can dereference a weak_ptr directly. This will obviously segfault on a nullptr deref if it's expired.
   - this is useful to avoid the .lock() hell where we are 100% sure the pointer _should_ be valid. (and if it isn't, it should throw.)
- weak_ptrs are still valid while the SP is being destroyed.
   - reasoning: while an object (e.g. CWindow) is being destroyed, its `weak_ptr self` should be accessible (the sp is still alive, and so is CWindow), but it's not because by stl it's already expired (to prevent resurrection)
   - this impl solves it differently. w_p is expired, but can still be dereferenced and used. Creating `s_p`s is not possible anymore, though.
   - this is useful in destructors and callbacks.

CMakeLists.txt

@@ -130,6 +130,8 @@ if(CMAKE_BUILD_TYPE MATCHES Debug OR CMAKE_BUILD_TYPE MATCHES DEBUG)
         message(STATUS "Enabling ASan")
 
         target_link_libraries(Hyprland asan)
+        pkg_check_modules(ffidep REQUIRED IMPORTED_TARGET libffi)
+        target_link_libraries(Hyprland ${CMAKE_SOURCE_DIR}/libwayland-server.a PkgConfig::ffidep)
         target_compile_options(Hyprland PUBLIC -fsanitize=address)
     endif()